In praise of California
In November, 1988, the electorate in California approved Proposition 103 to prevent the massive increases in premiums that were affecting all consumers looking for insurance. After major litigation to decide whether the Proposition was constitutional, it was finally implemented in May 1989 and rapidly revolutionized the rates of insurance across the state which fell by an average of 45% between 1989 and 2001. It is estimated that up to 2006, Californian drivers alone saved $62 billion on their auto insurance rates. Then the Consumer Watchdog combined with other socially active groups to force the insurance companies to abandon the practice of basing rates on the zip code and not your record as a driver. Now comes Assembly Bill 2800 which emerged from the Senate Appropriations Committee in August 2008.
This is being treated as a slightly more controversial measure. The auto insurance industry is campaigning to allow a switch to mileage and use as criteria for fixing the premiums. It estimates that this could produce further average savings in premiums of about $275 per vehicle. It would work by placing a small monitoring device in every vehicle to assess how far you drive in a year and how well you drive. But this device is viewed as an invasion into the privacy of drivers. As a compromise, the Insurance Commissioner suggests that drivers could allow the insurers to make regular checks on the odometer rather than allowing electronic collection and transmission of data. If the electronic version of the plan does go ahead, it will allow companies to identify consistently low-risk drivers from the time of day they use the roads, the speed at which they drive and the distance they travel. Such drivers will receive the maximum discounts available. Those deemed more likely to have accidents from the way they drive will potentially pay more.
The current system allows drivers to report their own mileage. The industry standard is to offer discounts to drivers who do less than 10,000 miles per year. Obviously, there’s a temptation in difficult economic times for drivers to underestimate their mileage to gain the discounts. This proposed device will reward the genuine drivers and charge a fair premium to the others. It will also help to save the planet because drivers who maintain a lower average speed use less gas and so produce less emissions. For once, the auto insurance industry would be helping to fight global warming which is very public-spirited it.
How much is enough?
It’s a sad fact that auto insurance is a boring subject. The only reason we tolerate it is that all but three states in the union have passed laws requiring us to have it. Were it not for that, we would all just let it die. So the eternal question we ask each other when we have nothing better to do is, “How much is enough?” Every state with a compulsory system starts off with a statutory minimum. This is the amount of liability insurance we must carry if we are to be lawful on the public roads. Failure to have this insurance in place results in a fine for the first offense. Repeat offenders face the risk of jail time with some states prepared to confiscate the vehicle and send it to the crusher. So, if the state sets the floor, is that enough, or should we all top up?
Take Florida as a case in point. It requires local drivers to carry two policies, both in the sum of $10,000, for personal injuries and damage to property. Have you seen how fast the cost of medical treatment has been rising? Even everyday drugs are expensive. But the moment you set foot inside a hospital, the bill starts escalating faster than a Hummer burns up gas. And what about the cost of repairs in a body shop? How much will $10,000 buy if two other vehicles are involved in the same traffic accident? Now let’s go to Maine. Here the minimum is to carry $50,000 for one person injured. If two or more are injured, they share $100,000 to (hopefully) cover their medical expenses. The minimum for property damage is $25,000. These are slightly more realistic figures but, when you add in all the possible claims for consequential and incidental losses, both sets of numbers are inadequate.
If you were to ask an agent for one of the auto insurance companies, he or she would tell you that you can’t have too much insurance. Since agents earn a commission on the sale of policies, this is not a surprising opinion. So it comes down to a simple rule. If you have a choice, you don’t need to top up your minimum liability policy if you don’t have assets to protect. Let’s say you live in a rental apartment with few items of furniture and no savings in the bank. If you get involved in a traffic accident, there’s no point in chasing you for money. But should you own an expensive house, have a portfolio of investments and enjoy a good lifestyle, you’re worth suing. It’s therefore in your interests to buy additional collision, comprehensive and uninsured/underinsured cover. As a final thought, you may not have a choice because lenders of auto loans always insist on full car insurance.
Tips On International Insurance
Is there anything like the excitement feeling when you leave on a vacation overseas? You count down the days to your trip, looking at red X’s in your calendar. You’ve packed your bags, prepared your tickets, and also prepared your passport for a stamp. You’ll be on your way before you know it! But what if something undesired happens on your way to vacation? What if the weather will stress your health? You’ll get sick? Lose your luggage? In that case, we have a couple suggestions of how you might act in making your trip maximum smooth. Even in cases of unthinkable things taking place.
Overseas insurance pack - what is it?
Most insurance companies are offering full-overseas insurance packs. They start with minimum seven-day coverage, costing lass than $50 per person. Your destination staying period, age and number of people in your party determine the price. They generally embrace:
- Dental and medical emergency
- Urgent medical evacuation
- Accidental dismemberment and death
- Remains’ home coming
- Dependent children return and visitor to bedside
- Damaged or lost luggage
- Protection of a rental car
- Pre-existing condition refusal
- Cancellation/ interruption/ delay/ default of the trip
Things to check, before leaving
Health Insurance: Health insurance isn’t extended outside the U.S. in most cases. Therefore, checking with your insurance and seeing your exact entail coverage is a smart idea.
Lost Luggage Insurance: That’s an insurance you really have to check up on before leaving to your overseas holiday. Even though homeowner’s insurance policies cover destruction or theft of your property, they don’t cover things not listed in the actual policy. So, having a lost luggage insurance adds confidence that your bags contents, lost during vacation, will be covered.
Car Insurance: If you’re planning to rent a car to ride, whence you’re overseas, applying for an international driver license would be a good idea. Don’t forget to read the driving rules in the country you’re going to. They surely may differ from those in U.S. Before you leave, be sure to have adequate car insurance. Your personal auto insurance policy won’t cover, if you’re out of U.S., unless you have a real umbrella policy that’ll cover you worldwide. You can contact your personal insurance company to do this.
Trip Interruption Insurance: Canceling your trip due to conditions that are not in your control is the worst thing to happen. Now there is an insurance called “trip interruption insurance”. It can help you cover part, or even all of the money you paid on canceled trip. Cancel can be caused by weather inclemency. Or a cruise line you booked on might go out of business, before your date of departure. Another thing about this type of insurance is that you might be covered for the hotel and flight costs, if you’ve had to cancel the trip because of death in the family or sickness.
Tips On International Insurance
Is there anything like the excitement feeling when you leave on a vacation overseas? You count down the days to your trip, looking at red X’s in your calendar. You’ve packed your bags, prepared your tickets, and also prepared your passport for a stamp. You’ll be on your way before you know it! But what if something undesired happens on your way to vacation? What if the weather will stress your health? You’ll get sick? Lose your luggage? In that case, we have a couple suggestions of how you might act in making your trip maximum smooth. Even in cases of unthinkable things taking place.
Overseas insurance pack - what is it?
Most insurance companies are offering full-overseas insurance packs. They start with minimum seven-day coverage, costing lass than $50 per person. Your destination staying period, age and number of people in your party determine the price. They generally embrace:
- Dental and medical emergency
- Urgent medical evacuation
- Accidental dismemberment and death
- Remains’ home coming
- Dependent children return and visitor to bedside
- Damaged or lost luggage
- Protection of a rental car
- Pre-existing condition refusal
- Cancellation/ interruption/ delay/ default of the trip
Things to check, before leaving
Health Insurance: Health insurance isn’t extended outside the U.S. in most cases. Therefore, checking with your insurance and seeing your exact entail coverage is a smart idea.
Lost Luggage Insurance: That’s an insurance you really have to check up on before leaving to your overseas holiday. Even though homeowner’s insurance policies cover destruction or theft of your property, they don’t cover things not listed in the actual policy. So, having a lost luggage insurance adds confidence that your bags contents, lost during vacation, will be covered.
Car Insurance: If you’re planning to rent a car to ride, whence you’re overseas, applying for an international driver license would be a good idea. Don’t forget to read the driving rules in the country you’re going to. They surely may differ from those in U.S. Before you leave, be sure to have adequate car insurance. Your personal auto insurance policy won’t cover, if you’re out of U.S., unless you have a real umbrella policy that’ll cover you worldwide. You can contact your personal insurance company to do this.
Trip Interruption Insurance: Canceling your trip due to conditions that are not in your control is the worst thing to happen. Now there is an insurance called “trip interruption insurance”. It can help you cover part, or even all of the money you paid on canceled trip. Cancel can be caused by weather inclemency. Or a cruise line you booked on might go out of business, before your date of departure. Another thing about this type of insurance is that you might be covered for the hotel and flight costs, if you’ve had to cancel the trip because of death in the family or sickness.
Cultured Experienced Player Image
Experience extends the other traits, but focuses on the overall aura of being cool, calm and collective. People who are perceived as powerful players display experience, high-class, and a reserved self-confidence. They have nothing to prove in their image, as they ooze firmness and achievement. By contrast, the new wannabe in town who brags, is arrogant and conceited rarely lasts, because he alienates people everyday. He’s on a fast track going 2 steps forward and 5 steps backwards. He has no allies and takes unnecessary large risks. The players who last have great people skills. They easily make friends in business and with women, but they remain very choosey in their selection, since they want longevity and only the best.
Experience means you rarely make impulsive or rash decisions in business or with women, as these usually turn out wrong. Be adverse to the temptation of undue risk, and concentrate on the high probability of reward. Women are attracted to experienced men who have been around the block. Experience comes from a high level of Street Intelligence in the field, which translates into higher status amongst peers. Experience means potential for higher incomes, which of course all women want. (What’s your is mine, and what’s mine is mine.) The higher up in the pecking order you are perceived to be, the more desirable you are to women. This doesn’t mean you have to be the CEO. What it means is that when a woman meets you, she sees that you are very smart about the inner workings of your field, cool with sexual prowess and image, and confident and self-assured with your skills. Experienced people are very tenacious and driven; big positives to women. Being simple minded and showing no drive or direction ruins your chances.
An experienced player let’s a girl know that his time is a valued commodity, as he has a very active, busy life. When your horny, bubble gum chewing, schoolgirl hottie calls, you don’t reply “Wassup. I’m power lounging trying to get rid of this vicious hangover.’” You are always busy pursuing business projects and are always analyzing some type of investment. You portray knowledge and success. Remember, that doesn’t mean you actually are successful. It means you show you have direction and wits, and know your path to obtaining success. This characteristic works best with the younger targets, girls who want a Daddy figure, girls who are new in town, and those who like it when someone else takes control of everything. The type-A aggressive women are not the girlfriend type for the smart, successful guy in the group. These girls consider conversations a debate and take offense when proven wrong, which they usually are, instead of learning from it.
Self-assurance and humility are some of the best personality traits to show. Whatever is your area of expertise; be it business, a hobby, or a sport, carry it with humility. If you are going places in life, it shows without saying a word. Be above the fray, and steer clear of petty office politics and jabs. Never put another guy in your field down in front of women. Never brag about yourself, or blather on about your life. Let people ask you questions, and then use self-deprecating humor in your answers. Mastery at something shows drive and skill, which usually translate into the ability to do the same at other things in life. Experience shows a woman you get things accomplished in life. When placed in a confrontational situation, you pause and strategize. The superior negotiator uses time, instincts and street smarts to get what he wants. You analyze a situation swiftly, and use your wits and ingenuity to decipher and influence events, instead of your fists. You are nobody’s fool. You ooze with the street smarts.
Women want to be around a man who people are naturally drawn to. You become the center of attention not because of vanity or ego, it’s because you make things happen in life. People want to deal with you, as you seem more honest and in control, and feel they were get a fairer deal because you seem far more intelligent, rational and fair than the average guy. Women feel completely safe and secure with the man with experience. Women see you as the one with the barrier, and set out to be the one to crack it.
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Be Intelligently Passionate and Articulate
Everyone is attracted to people who show a genuine passion for something in life. Controlled enthusiasm draws others in to your energy. People with passion tend to excel and be knowledgeable about the hobby, sport, or job that drives them. Intelligence carries many perceptions, and all are positive attention getters. Intelligent people are perceived to be more emotionally stable, independent, socially adjusted, and have more professional success. They’re interesting to listen to. People are drawn to intelligence as they can learn about things. Work this to your advantage. Be an expert at things. Now being smarter about a topic doesn’t mean you are brilliant. It means you put in the extra effort to learn more about something than others have. It really just means you can memorize and speak well.
Set out to have a broad base of knowledge on an array of topics. Know more than the next guy. Be somewhat of an information junky. However, you should never let on you’re smarter than the cocky uninformed blabbermouth trying to impress the ladies. You shouldn’t divulge your success or inside information to another guy in front of women, particularly if they are not at a similar level. Let the other guy blather on about how great he is doing, while you smile and act mildly amused. It is better to be self-deprecating in this situation. Woman love this and can sense it immediately. They can’t wait to talk to you in private and ask if some guy was full of shit, or find out what the real story is. There is power in being playfully humble. Being arrogant may bring you a lot of attention initially, but unless you can back it up with success, it is an attraction killer.
Travel Guru:
Act fascinated and in awe of things you know women like. Be passionate in your explanations of your discoveries. Women are all drawn to things that involve travel; far away trips, exotic locations, and tropical paradises. Make it a pet project of yours to study a wide variety of popular locations. Put real time into it, watch the Discovery Channel to help visualize images to describe, and read books about the topics and places. Take up some more extravagant hobbies. Develop wider interests; go scuba diving in the Caribbean, take the hiking trip down and up the Grand Canyon, go blue marlin fishing in Cabo San Lucas, study hiking and mountain climbing in South America. You only live once, so do some of these excursions. Blow off puking with the guys at spring break, and take some eco-sporting trips. Document them with a digital camera.. .take action shots, and do your best intense James Bond poses. Smirk, and act like you do this stuff every day, and are having the time of your life in them. Pics are an instant conversation starter. Every girl is fascinated by well-documented travels.
It doesn’t take much effort to develop an extensive knowledge of exotic places and events. Why all this effort? Picking up women is a competition sport. Nothing bores a woman more than a guy who drones on about his job, and how important he sees himself there. The guy who never discusses his job, and oozes passion discussing exotic adventures attracts. The Crocodile Hunter is the alpha stud, Orville the office cubicle dork is a lost cause. If you can’t afford the trips, study all the details, the ins and outs…let’s face it. How can a woman really know in conversation if you’ve done all these trips, when you’re so knowledgeable about them? When you combine your knowledge and passion about these things, you draw attention to yourself, without any vanity or ego; you come across as the debonair cashed up travel stud, whom she hopes will take her on the next adventure.
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Insecurity is for Little Girls
Vanity is a peculiar characteristic that is way overvalued. It’s an obstacle to seduction, and has no redeeming quality in reality. What’s funny about the trait is how much it affects most people’s lives. Every little thought, move, and action that ego driven people make balances precariously on reactions and approval from others. The fear of being judged by others poorly has them paralyzed to do anything. Yet the importance of the whole concept is borderline ridiculous. People’s minds are pre-occupied with themselves. For the most part, other people are barely even thinking about you, and every little thing you do. They’re worried about themselves, and every little thing they are doing! It’s a battle of the effeminate limp wristed worrywarts. Sorry to pop your bubble, but you really are not so important that people are staring at you with baited breath, waiting for your approval of them. Relax. It’s how you feel inside that matters. By the way, the guys leering in your direction at the gym are not laughing at your technique, they’re checking out the ass on the blonde behind you.
Insecurity is a benchmark achievement of the Liberal Media Guilt Police. Equality for women was the feminist sales pitch, but it was just a camouflage for their real intentions. The goal was to castrate men and give woman all the power. Female Equality is retarded socialist brainwashing that preaches Man was not intended to be an aggressive overachiever or stand up for himself. They lecture how you should question everything over and over in your mind from a PC stance of how others will feel about it, until the nuances and fear stop you from committing to do anything. Men should be equally passive and miserable, and allow women to control us.
Insecurity keeps you from making decisions without the endorsement from women; avoid this attitude like the plague if you want pussy. In the modern era, when you’re a nice guy or a gentleman, women respond by walking all over you like a spoiled brat. Insecurity will destroy your chances with seducing women. It forces you to make decisions out of desperation; decisions that are not in your best interests. When you are insecure, you are an open season target to predatory woman. They can smell weakness in a man a mile away, and will role-play and quickly assume control of your life and your wallet. Through selective limitation of the sex supply, they tear through your assets until you go broke, or until they bore of the game.
Subconsciously, women all seek a man of strength, as he shows the signs of being a provider. In conversations, show you are not the least bit concerned if you disagree with something, and that you will never kiss her ass. When a woman gets a little emotional, remember that she is testing you. Stand up for yourself, and show her she is dealing with a strong man whose behavior she cannot control. Have your own opinions, without being argumentative. Women love intelligence. If she asks, offer up compelling alternative views and be tad controversial with a smile. Eventually, whether it’s a few hours, or a few dates, her bitch shield will come down.
Learn how to avoid falling into the same old patterns and negative mind games you play on yourself. It’s easy to be a pussy and make excuses for never trying for the hotter girls that you really want. The typical excuse is thinking you have to been rich to get women. The appearance of having taste does not mean you have to be wealthy by any means. It’s not like you are showing women financial statements, portfolios, and promising diamonds. The dating world is full of phoniness on both ends of the spectrum. Rest assured, half the Posers in the Porsche’s and Fountain Speedboats are in hock up to their eyeballs with lease payments they can’t afford, living the life they wish were true. It’s no different than the phony bleach blondes with the boob jobs, tummy tucks, and the expensive car and house paid for by the ex. No excuses allowed. You got to take a lot of swings at the plate before you start connecting like a professional.
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Seeking her Approval is Dating Suicide
Being insecure and seeking approval from women is by nature acting highly feminine. Insecurity discourages success and independence. Like everything else the media suggests men should do, the exact opposite is the right attitude. Yet a majority of men are intellectually tone deaf to the whole concept. They feebly play along at the slightest whiff of potential sex. When you play the castrated metrosexual role, women see it as a big red bulls-eye on your wallet. Plus, they’re immediately sexually turned off. If you are doing this approach out of inexperience, snap out of it immediately. Once you give off the slightest hint of insecurity, you’re closing ratio plummets, and you become off limits to the type of women you should be pursuing.
The strong alpha player knows to avoid this male weakness, and exploits the opposite characteristic to his advantage. Think about it. How can being insecure be an attractive trait? Is insecurity the type of masculine behavior that accomplishes anything of value? In business, innovation is defined by being secure in your thinking, and bold in your actions. Without being strong and taking risks, there would be no entrepreneurs in the country, no competitive sports; nothing that requires testosterone and drive would exist. Imagine taking feminism in a time machine back to the 15th century and seeing how it fairs. Try to envision Maximus the Roman Gladiator going into battle with Katie Couric as his leader.
“Now Max, let’s all be nice to the other army, take our Ritalin, and share our feelings in the time out room. Now which one of you silly little boys is carrying mypanty shields?”
How you handle yourself when women test you is important. If your woman tries whining and criticism to get her way, the alpha response is not yelling back or getting defensive. What you should do is laugh that she thinks she has that kind of authority over your life.
“I told you what I’m doing tomorrow night, I’m not asking for your permission. Funny stuff. What reality show did you learn that from ?”
Nobody should have the power to decide what you do in life. To be an achiever in life requires taking action when opportunities arise. The only way you can ever achieve things is to take risks. If you spend your life asking for permission for things around woman, two things will happen. She will say no, and you will simultaneously have handed over all your power to her, and erased yourself from her list.
Never ask a woman for permission for anything. Be a man. Make firm decisions to do things, tell her what you are going to do, and invite her along for the ride. If she complains about your choice, the correct answer is “You don’t have to go.” If she gives you more lip about your decision and counters with “let’s go drop a grand shopping so I can make Tiffany jealous,” ignore the comment. Reply back with ‘Wo big deal, I thought I’d ask you first” and hang up.
Suppose she decides to join you and ends up dissatisfied with it anyway. It’s better taking action and doing something, than fretting about it, getting shot down and doing nothing at all. If she wants an apology, that’s a no win situation as well. By apologizing, you are again seeking her approval, and acting insecure. This is playing a losing hand. Never apologize to women. Even if you’re caught in bed banging her roommate, blame in on the girl. Never feel guilty. You’re just doing exactly what women do to men. The female capacity to lie, cheat, deny, and break promises knows no boundaries. They’re just emotional statements that she’ll rationalize later.
Compare that to the typical beta male making his move on a hard body.
“Ifnoone is sitting here next to you, do you think I could possibly join you and maybe buy you a drink? You ‘re so beautiful; you must be a model. Would you like to empty my wallet now before you get too bored?”
When you ask out women, they need to know you have set the proper mix values in your life. You are very busy in business and socially, but that you will set aside some time to be with them because you’re attracted, BUT, if they give you any grief about it, it is no big deal. You have to show the ability to walk away from them, no matter how hot looking they are. This is how a secure man acts, and how he attracts women into the lair.
As far as sex, an insecure man is passive and petrified to make the wrong move, and always waits for signals from her before making any physical moves. Bad, bad, bad. Obviously you should wait until you have developed a sufficient comfort zone with her before attacking. If you don’t, at best you only get one night stands. But you still have to be a man and make the moves, or she will lose any lust and desire for you.
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Project High Standards and Class
Appearances and reality can often be confused. Your self-confident attitude and personal drive for greatness help women perceive you to having High Standards in Life, even if you aren’t there yet. So what traits reflect this? Women want men who have strong moral principles and absolute certainty in themselves. Men who are not looking for sleazy shortcuts and a low budget style of living. Men who pay great attention to detail, are highly self-disciplined, have complete emotional control, and are reliable. A man who is persistent in getting what he wants attracts women, especially if his accomplishments appear to be full of honesty and personal integrity. They all want to hook up with a man who appears to want the best of everything, and latch onto them hoping for the free ride.
As far as the all important materialness that women love, high standards is crucial. Girls like a man who knows the value of the finer things in life. They like guys who are classy, well dressed, and go for exactly what they want, without settling for second best. They like guys who are in control, and are a challenge; men who carry themselves with prestige, and aren’t caught dead in the wrong places with the wrong people. They like guys who associate with other high-class men. Women all dream of the Hollywood lifestyle. So as a man, you should have a wide array of knowledge on the High Class things that women like. Restaurants, wines, cooking, the theatre, fancy cars, houses, interior design, the arts, travel, etc. A man who is “cultured” and has High Standards receives a higher level of desirability and value in a girls mind. Why? Because they think you’re going to finance all these things for her! Now this does not mean that you have to live this highbrow lifestyle and cater to her every whim while you’re single. It just means you are smart enough to take the time to educate yourself about all the details, and are prepared to discuss anything with the proper lingo. It certainly means all those midnight runs to the local Strip Clubs after you dump your date off better be done incognito in Navy Seal fashion.
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Creating Intrigue - Be A Challenge
All of the Alpha Foundation characteristics overlap in some aspect. What the challenge trait adds to the mix is mystery, intrigue, and being original and provocative. You give off the appearance of being unknown and unavailable. The beginning of every chase is driven by fantasies. Don’t spoil the magic by rushing things and shoving reality at her too quickly. Play with her. Give a seductive tease of flashing aggression, and then pulling away when she shows interest. Generate attraction while hiding your personal details and information. Master the ability to keep it all inside, and let women struggle to find out your “secrets.”
By being challenging and distant, you create desire. Just sit back and laugh at the silly insecure dudes bragging about their menial accomplishments to try and get laid; the sea of $30,000 a year millionaires you see in every club. Why brag? There’s more power in saying nothing and hanging back in jeans, a t-shirt; unshaved with a cynical smirk on your face.
It’s easy to be in no hurry to pursue any one girl when you’re working a fleet of them at the same time. They know you are a player, but still lust for you, to be the one that wins. You of course are aware of this, and simply don’t care, because you don’t have to. Ironically, women love this mildly disinterested approach. Girls long to be wanted. By not seeking her approval or complimenting her looks she starts to feel insecure, and begins questioning herself…. she is losing the power struggle. She makes it her quest to bed the challenge guy… to win you over…to seize control. Girls live to validate their desirability, and flex their perceived power over you. Act unimpressed, and it turns many women into the aggressor.
Girls prefer a good chase.
When you speak, offer only limited information about yourself. You want your target to be thoroughly intrigued, and yet frustrated at her lack of progress in controlling or understanding you. By being confusing and keeping her in suspense, you are always on her mind and keep her emotionally attracted. There is nothing about you that is predictable. Your style of dating is never routine, and never repeated. When asked about your life, don’t blather on about your career and life details. Hold back and give hazy details; being mysterious creates greater desire. Ask her vague questions that keep her talking about herself.
“Sorry, I’m not giving interviews tonight. Let’s just say I invest and do well, and leave it at that. Tell me about you, what goals do you have? Where do you see yourself in 5 years? Where have you always wanted to travel to?
By giving her the stage, you are letting talk about her favorite topic. Herself! By being a great listener, you create feelings of verbal intimacy she rarely feels. “He understands me.” Allow her to feel special by sharing your own intimate secrets. If you don’t have any good stories to rival hers, read a couple Penthouse letters and memorize the best ones. Make the sexual conquests with strangers in unexpected intimate situations. Stay away from anything involving ex-girlfriends. Watch for reactions (licking lips, playing with hair, nipples popping) at key sex points in the story for clues for sex tricks to exploit on a later date.
Never underestimate the value of scarcity. Time should be a precious commodity for you to arrange hooking up. When people limit availability of anything, it creates the impression of being in high demand. It increases value and desire. Let women know your first priority is business and achieving personal goals. Next are the things that interest you most in life; your hobbies, competitive sports, investments, and your health. Women are just one more thing in your life, and hardly the center of it. To make arrangements to do things with her, you always have to try and juggle your schedule. “This week is impossible, I’m free next Tuesday and possibly Thursday…” When a girl makes the moves on you, tell her you’re interested, but you’re seeing someone or just getting out of a relationship and need a week or two to settle things. You are taken, but things aren’t quite working out. By being unavailable, she wants what she can’t have. This creates the motivation in her mind to steal you away from the other woman. A challenging guy is high demand.
Make your phone calls short, always be the one who gets off first. Act like you don’t need her approval or sex from her. You have a life and your own opinions. If during any discussion she says some nonsense you totally disagree with, never cave in to her viewpoint. Counter with “perhaps” or something totally vague. Never surrender a single point to her. Creating emotions, highs, lows and confusion creates sexual tension. The result of mastering the challenge status is you create a sexual frustrated woman; a condition that can only be satisfied one way. She loses her edge, and makes her decisions blinded by frustration, emotion and lust instead of logic.
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